Based on the suffixes mentioned, here are the correct placements:
Words Missing the Suffix -er:
- enlister
- departer
- skiller
- blonder
- grander
- odder
- fonder
- defeater
Words Missing the Suffix -ed:
- enlisted**
- departed**
- skilled**
- blonded**
- granded**
- odded**
- fonded**
- defeated**
However, some words might not conventionally use the suffixes in typical English usage (like "blonded" or "granded").
In standard usage:
Words typically missing the suffix -ed:
- enlisted
- departed
- skilled
- defeated
To clarify further, please confirm or give additional context for the completion.