ok so im gonna ask a friend to be my gf saying smth like hey ik you said that your in a friend capacity rn but wonder if us would still be on the table ik i just got out of it with oreo but im just exploreing love and if im honest i still hold feelings for you and i get that people my think that i dont know much about love but i know alot ive help several people with thier own relationships. i just have had a bad streak in chooseing the people i love

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It sounds like you want to express your feelings honestly while also acknowledging the current boundaries in your friendship. Here’s a way to phrase it that might come across as clear and respectful:


"Hey [Friend's Name], I know you mentioned that you're feeling more like friends right now, but I wanted to talk about something that’s been on my mind. I just got out of a relationship with Oreo, and I'm exploring what love means to me. The truth is, I still have feelings for you, and I’d really like to explore what we might have together.

I understand if you're not interested or if this feels sudden, but I've often helped others with their relationships. I might not have all the answers when it comes to love, but I know I want to connect with the right person. I hope we can have an open conversation about this."


Feel free to adjust the wording to make it feel more like your natural voice. Good luck!