What does the letters in S.T.O.P stand for when practicing refusal skills?

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The acronym S.T.O.P. is often used to help individuals remember a model for practicing refusal skills. It typically stands for:

  • S - Say no: Clearly state your refusal.
  • T - Tell why: Provide a reason for your refusal.
  • O - Offer an alternative: Suggest another activity or option.
  • P - Prompt for action: Encourage the other person to engage in a different behavior or to think about your refusal.

This approach helps individuals assertively refuse unwanted requests or pressures while maintaining respect for themselves and others.