What should I say to my friend if they send me this "I’m actually done with this school and the group of friends bc yesterday during dismissal I get ignored by them and then today I was placing my backpack on the table and Joey said “no broooo” but I was only putting my backpack on the table so I could put my headphones in then when I put my backpack down she took my seat and plus they all been very rude and today I just don’t feel like taking my energy and being nice to them so I left and sat alone in the library. I saw my friends come in like like w their friends one by one they all ignored me and sat far from me. And then I texted my friend gc which from my neighborhood and I love them. And one of my friend’s childhood friend he came to hang out so we added him to the gc so he said some things to make me feel better. And he’s genuinely the sweetest guy(I don’t like him). I get ignored a lot in the gc too bc they don’t talk to me so that also upsets me. When I just want someone to talk to and text. Like I talk to so many people but they always got something bad about me to say. Even kina but I’m being nice to her bc my mom likes her and she coming over for a sleepover on Monday. But I always listen to her vents and she always saying rude things to me but whenever I vent(I struggle to open up and yk that) she just leaves or ignores me and whenever I say something mean( playful way) she gets upset me. I remember in 8th grade she gave me a scar and I still have it.I’m just honestly overwhelmed. I’m crying in class

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It sounds like your friend is going through a really tough time and feeling deeply hurt and overwhelmed by their situation. Here’s how you might respond:


“Hey, I’m so sorry to hear you’re feeling this way. It’s really tough when you feel ignored and unappreciated by people who are supposed to be your friends. I can’t believe how they treated you yesterday, and it’s completely understandable that you’re feeling overwhelmed.

It sounds like you’ve been really patient with them and trying to be there for others, but it’s not fair if they’re not giving you the same in return. You deserve friends who respect and include you. If you want to talk more about it or just vent, I’m here for you. And if you need a distraction, maybe we can plan something fun together to take your mind off things. Remember, it’s okay to prioritize your feelings and take a step back if you need to.”


This response shows support, understanding, and offers a listening ear, all of which can help your friend feel less alone.