In "The Red Badge of Courage" by Stephen Crane, Henry's mother has a sense of apprehension and concern regarding his decision to join the army. Although she does not explicitly voice her fears in a confrontational way, her feelings are evident in her emotional demeanor and the way she expresses her reluctance about his departure. She tries to convey to Henry the dangers of war and the uncertainty that comes with his choice, indicating her disapproval without overtly forbidding him from enlisting.
Henry, on the other hand, seems to be driven by a mix of romantic notions of heroism and a desire to prove himself. He is somewhat dismissive of his mother's concerns, feeling a sense of duty to go to war despite her fears. As a result, there is a gap between Henry's eagerness to fight and his mother’s apprehensive feelings about his safety.
In summary, Henry's mother doesn't explicitly articulate her thoughts in a direct manner, leaving Henry to interpret her emotions and concerns. Their opinions are not aligned—she is worried and protective, while he is eager and seeks validation through military action.