Here is a comparative table outlining the "dos" and "don'ts" concerning manners at mealtime in the Spanish-speaking world (considering general practices as they can vary by country) and in the United States.
| Category | Spanish-Speaking World (Dos and Don’ts) | United States (Dos and Don’ts) | |----------------------------|----------------------------------------------|-------------------------------------------------| | Table Setting | Do: Use formal table settings, often with multiple utensils. <br>Don't: Arrive without an invitation or unprepared. | Do: Use simple table settings, typically with fewer utensils. <br>Don't: Use too many plates or bowls; it's usually simpler. | | Beginning the Meal | Do: Wait for the host to say "buen provecho" or start the meal. <br>Don't: Start eating before everyone is served. | Do: Wait for the host to invite everyone to start. <br>Don't: Eat before others have received their food. | | Eating Etiquette | Do: Keep hands on the table but not elbows; finish everything on the plate. <br>Don't: Chew with your mouth open or make loud noises. | Do: Keep elbows off the table; it’s okay to leave a small amount of food. <br>Don't: Use your phone or engage in loud conversations while eating. | | Conversation | Do: Engage in lively conversation; sharing stories is common. <br>Don't: Discuss sensitive topics (politics/religion) openly unless everyone is comfortable. | Do: Keep conversation light and friendly; ask about others. <br>Don't: Dominate the conversation or talk with your mouth full. | | Drinking | Do: Toast (brindis) before drinking, especially at formal gatherings. <br>Don't: Drink without acknowledging others at the table. | Do: Raise your glass for a toast on special occasions. <br>Don't: Drink from your glass without toasting, if appropriate. | | Ending the Meal | Do: Thank the host and offer to help clean up. <br>Don't: Leave without saying goodbye. | Do: Thank the host for the meal and help with cleanup. <br>Don't: Leave the table abruptly or forget to thank the host. |
This table highlights general customs in each context, but it's important to remember that individual preferences can vary, and customs may change based on specific cultures or social settings.