What is the most helpful way to discuss a loved one at a funeral or memorial service?

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settling old scores with the departed person’s enemiessettling old scores with the departed person’s enemies

listing all the details that anger you about the situationlisting all the details that anger you about the situation

relating your happy memories of the departed person
relating your happy memories of the departed person

calling out any people who did not attend the service

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calling out any people who did not attend the service