I'm really sorry to hear about the difficult situation you're going through. It sounds like a toxic and abusive relationship, and it's important to prioritize your safety and well-being. Here are a few steps you can consider taking:
1. Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or a support hotline to talk about your situation. It can be helpful to have someone who can provide emotional support and guidance.
2. Document the incidents of destruction, theft, and any abusive behavior. Keep a record of dates, times, and descriptions of what has happened. This documentation may be useful if you decide to involve the authorities or seek legal action in the future.
3. Consider changing your locks or enhancing your home security measures to ensure your safety and protect your belongings.
4. Seek professional help from a therapist or counselor who specializes in abusive relationships. They can provide guidance and support as you navigate this difficult situation.
5. If you feel unsafe or in immediate danger, do not hesitate to call emergency services in your country.
6. Establish boundaries and make it clear that his behavior is not acceptable. Communicate your needs and expectations clearly, and if he continues to act in a harmful way, consider ending the relationship permanently.
Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect, kindness, and love. It may not be easy, but ending the cycle of abuse is important for your well-being. Take care of yourself and surround yourself with supportive people who can help you through this challenging time.
Why is this guy I really like. Hurting me delibertly. We've been on and off again for 3 yrs now. I still don't know his hangouts, his friends, his home, etc. He only come to visit late in the evenings, and on his schedule. He's so secretive. When at my home. He gets into my (very )personal letters, banks, etc. He's breaking up all my belongings, and destroying walls, plumbing, putting holes in walls. Carving up my nice wood furniture. When I confront him. He flat out says. It's not him. Than further on he says, it's me!!! Doing all this. I'm scared and confused. My purse, house keys, jewelry, phones keep moving to areas of the house I've not been in awhile.. why is he Gaslighting me. It's getting so bad. That I look around at all my things, and they are junk now. So much missing. Tollittries, perfumes. Watered down. Cleaning supplies so tampered with. They don't clean. What the hell is up with this man. Please give advice to me!!
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