Umbono wami ngalolu daba ungokuthi ukuvumela umakoti ukuba abe nabo kuzolotsholwa kungaba yindlela yokuwukhulisa umndeni, kodwa kufanele kube nokuqonda okufanele okukhethwe. Kungaba kuhle uma umakoti ezwa ukuthi uzwakala futhi enokuxhumana nabantu abamthandayo, njengoba lokhu kungakha isimo esihle sokuxhumana. Kodwa-ke, uma umakoti ezwa ukuthi ukuhamba nalabo kuzolotsholwa kuholela ekungezwani noma emifundweni engafanele, kungakuhle ukuthi ashiye lezi zimo.
Kubalulekile ukucabangela izimo zomndeni, ukuzwakala komakoti, kanye nemigomo nemicabango yasezindaweni ezahlukahlukene. Okubalulekile ngemva kwakho konke, umakoti kufanele azizwe ekhululekile futhi ephethwe kahle emshadweni, futhi izinqumo ezithathwayo kufanele zikhulume kakhulu ngenhlonipho nangokuxhumana okuhle phakathi kwemindeni.